Divorce & Family Law · New York
S James J. Sexton, Esq.Divorce & Family Law
Divorce & Family Law · New York

Protecting what youvalue most.

For more than two decades, James J. Sexton has represented New Yorkers through the most consequential moments of their lives — in the courtroom and at the negotiating table. Strategic, relentless, and uncompromising on the details.

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2001
Practicing Since
Top 1%
NY Family Law
1,000+
Clients Represented
James J. Sexton, Esq. — Divorce and Family Law Attorney
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The sociopath you want on your side.

— How former clients describe James Sexton
The Approach

A compassionate advocate. A courtroom gunslinger.

Family law is rarely about the law alone. It's about the people, the leverage, and the moves that come next. Mr. Sexton approaches every matter as an ongoing chess match — disciplined, several steps ahead, and tailored to the result the client actually needs.

The firm represents a deliberately selective roster: from Fortune 500 executives, surgeons, and entertainment figures to police officers, teachers, and stay-at-home parents. Whoever the client, every case receives the responsiveness, technological precision, and personal attention it deserves.

Litigation High-Net-Worth Divorce Negotiated Settlements Custody & Support Complex Asset Division
Practice Areas

How the firm helps

From a single contested hearing to the division of a complex estate, the firm handles the full range of divorce and family law matters across New York.

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Divorce & Dissolution

Contested and uncontested divorce — from straightforward separations to hard-fought litigation that shapes the outcome for years to come.

02

Child Custody & Visitation

Protecting your relationship with your children through custody, parenting time, and relocation disputes, with the child's best interests at the center.

03

Child & Spousal Support

Establishing, defending, or modifying support obligations — built on accurate financials and a clear-eyed view of what's fair and sustainable.

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Complex Asset Division

Equitable distribution of businesses, real estate, retirement accounts, and high-value or hard-to-value assets, with the right experts at the table.

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Prenuptial & Postnuptial

Clear, enforceable agreements that protect what you've built and remove uncertainty — drafted carefully, reviewed honestly.

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Modifications & Appeals

When circumstances change or a result is wrong, the firm pursues modifications and appeals with the same intensity as the original case.

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The Attorney

Meet James J. Sexton, Esq.

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Since 2001 · New York

James J. Sexton

Founder & Managing Partner

Admitted to the New York bar in 2001, James Sexton has built his entire career around divorce and family law. After earning his Juris Doctor from Fordham Law School and a master's degree from New York University — where he studied persuasive speech and propaganda — he spent nearly two decades refining his craft in the courtrooms of Manhattan, Brooklyn, Rockland, Westchester, and Orange Counties.

That work earned him a place among the top 1% of family law attorneys in New York. In 2018, the release of his first book added #1 bestselling author, television personality, and sought-after public speaker to his record.

Known for his intensity, focus, and discipline, Sexton starts most days at 4:00 a.m. — meditation, training, and the next moves in what he calls the never-ending chess match of family law. A self-described computer geek since the 1980s, he keeps the practice on the cutting edge of technology, pairing lightning-fast responsiveness with an exacting attention to detail.

J.D. Fordham Law School M.A. New York University #1 Bestselling Author Est. 2001
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From the Author

How to Stay in Love

Drawing on more than a thousand clients, Sexton's bestselling book distills what he's learned about why relationships unravel — and what couples can do to keep them intact. The aim is simple: keep you out of his office.

Who would have guessed that the person who gives the best advice about marriage was the guy responsible for getting you out of yours?

— Judith Newman, The New York Times Book Review

Most marriages don't end over a single dramatic event. They erode through dishonest — or nonexistent — communication. Reverse-engineering a relationship, Sexton argues, is how you find and fix what isn't working before it's too late.

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Client Testimonials

In their own words.

The results speak for themselves — but so do the clients. Hear directly from people the firm has represented through some of the hardest moments of their lives.

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In the Media

As seen & heard

From network television to the biggest podcasts in the world, James Sexton is an in-demand voice on divorce, relationships, and conflict — with appearances reaching tens of millions.

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Soft White Underbelly
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Huberman Lab
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Plus features in The New York Times, Time, Newsweek, NPR, Good Morning America, CNN, and more. Explore the full catalog at SextonShow.com.

Where We Work

Two offices. One standard.

The firm serves all five boroughs of New York City and Rockland, Orange, and Westchester Counties. Consultations are held in person or by video — Zoom, FaceTime, or Microsoft Teams.

Manhattan

Hudson Yards

31 Hudson Yards, 11th Floor
New York, NY 10001
Adjacent to the Equinox Hotel, overlooking the Vessel and the Shops at Hudson Yards. Take the 7 train to Hudson Yards — you'll ascend directly in front of the building. Valet parking available.
(212) 627-5095
Rockland County

New City

301 North Main Street
New City, NY 10956
Less than a quarter-mile from the Rockland County Courthouse and roughly 25 miles from the George Washington Bridge. Ample parking with access to the Palisades Parkway, the Thruway, and Routes 303 & 304.
(845) 708-9100
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